The last few days have been quite fraught for Dad due to today’s impending Colonoscopy. The whole situation has been draining for him psychologically more than anything else.
He has coped well with the restricted diet, even managing to take to drinking black coffee with relative ease. Black tea has been a no go, though this was expected. Otherwise he has been eating just fish, toast, rice and soup. Quite a healthy diet in some respects.
More than anything though the expectation connected with the taking of an enema and what may or may or not be found, has caused him much worry and to feel uncomfortable.
Three laxatives and two enemas later, we arrived at Xativa Hospital and Dad waited ‘impatiently’ to be called through for the procedure; 45 minutes passed by and it was all over.
The news is technically great though the procedure itself failed. Although they were not able to fully assess the bowel where the suspected issue was, doctors are confident enough that we are no longer dealing with a further tumour.
This means that the Immunotherapy treatment (at this stage) will more than likely be given the go ahead; although we have still not received the full thumbs up yet.
A further scan on Dad’s bowel will be carried out next Wednesday, though this time he will not need to follow a restricted diet and will only need one enema the evening before. They have not said what the scan will be but it sounds like it may be a barium style scan or some other such specialist scan; either way they do not seem unduly concerned, they simply want to get to the bottom (ahem) of what may be happening down there.
It remains to be seen if Valencia will give the go ahead for the Immunotherapy treatment before next week’s second bowel scan, though the Oncologist has said she will let the team know that Colon Cancer is not suspected.
Having left the hospital, you could see Dad’s mood lift; like the weight he has been carrying, has been lifted from his shoulders.
His main concern continues to be his weight loss, especially with regards to his legs which have become very skeletal in their appearance. His arms are not much better and due to the small levels of food being consumed his energy level remains very low.
Due to his tiredness, he also becomes easily agitated and has bouts of grumpiness that would give even the entire cast of ‘Grumpy Old Men’ a run for their money.
To restore a bit of light and positivity, one good news story I have read this week was on February 4th (World Cancer Day).
Immunotherapy is advancing tremendously and trials have been taking place for some time. A patient with what I believe to be just Lung Cancer with no spread to other areas of his body was given just 12-18 months to live. This was 3 years ago! After receiving a trial course of Immunotherapy, he now has NO traces of the disease.
Different results are clearly seen across those that have taken part in past and current trials. However, this is the first time I have read that Immunotherapy has actually cured someone!
I’m not going to get too far ahead of ourselves but rather than believe we are facing the end, I thought for once even whilst the odds may be stacked against Dad, there is still time and there is still a chance that his resilience and fight will pay off.